By Sean Anderson
Again within the Seventies, whereas most children have been busy driving bikes across the block or enjoying with motion figures, a younger Ray Leonard Jr was residing the life that others might solely dream about. TV business appearances, rubbing shoulders with A-list celebrities, he even had a Nintendo laptop recreation formally examined and endorsed by him. And all of this was by the tender age of eight.
The son of pound-for-pound nice ‘Sugar’ Ray Leonard noticed a lot so younger in a rollercoaster life. He was introduced into the world in 1973; his dad was simply 16, his mum 15. Three years later, Leonard Sr bagged Olympic gold within the light-welterweight class in Montreal. As his dad’s star rose, life was about to turn out to be very totally different for the younger boy from North Carolina.
“I used to be an integral a part of the advertising, promotions and what my father needed to turn out to be,” Leonard Jr advised Boxing Information. “Him having an image of me on his sock when he was boxing caught consideration. That was a part of the programme. I used to be engaged early. When he got here again from the Olympics, there was an image of him and me with the gold medal collectively. That went in every single place.”
Following Olympic success, Leonard Sr, in fact, took to the skilled ranks with aplomb, sweeping all earlier than him. After simply over three years within the paid ranks, he infamously confronted Roberto Duran for the primary time. It was the primary battle that Leonard Jr missed.
“I went to each single battle till then [27 up to that point]. That was, in fact, the primary battle that he misplaced. I blamed myself for that defeat and thought I used to be his good luck attraction,” recalled the youthful Leonard.
“When he didn’t win it was a very huge factor and virtually elevated the celebrity. That was a time once we did a 7-Up advert. That put me on the map to the worldwide media. It was a journey that each of us have been on.”
There was, in fact, a fairly legendary rematch, the place a bamboozled and annoyed Duran famously give up.
“Being there the second time for the Duran ‘No Mas’ battle which was round my birthday, that was so particular. To see him reclaim his glory. Trigger I suffered myself after his defeat to Duran the primary time round.”
Nevertheless, it wasn’t having nightmares about his dad’s nemesis that was inflicting the torment.
“We went to Hawaii [after Duran I] on trip and my father minimize it brief as he needed to get again to coaching. I used to be pissed off in regards to the trip and it was my first time in Hawaii. Nevertheless it was value it, in fact. Duran II is an unreal reminiscence and whole redemption.”
Jet-setting across the globe grew to become one thing that Leonard Jr grew to become accustomed to, however it was not one thing he initially believed made him totally different to anybody else. However as he grew older, he started to understand the extent to which his life was not that of the typical child.
“Earlier than I had time to consider it, I used to be assembly the Queen of England and Nelson Mandela. I acquired to take a seat in firstclass and trip subsequent to Mike Tyson after his huge fights. It was mind-blowing. It was nerve-wracking,” he remembered.
“However I didn’t actually see something out of the abnormal because it was all that I knew. However then I realised my buddy’s dads weren’t flying on a non-public jet or getting all this consideration after they walked to the mall. I grew to become attuned to what was occurring.
“As we began to get consideration from the media as a result of our international success we needed to transfer out of the neighbourhood. I might at all times return with my aunts and uncles and cousins and hang around with them, however we couldn’t dwell there.”
By this level, the largest problem, as it might be for any little one, was how little he was attending to see his celebrity dad.
“Time with my father was once we did occasions. We have been on tv collectively after which I wouldn’t see him for lengthy durations of time due to the sacrifices he was making to be nice. You need to hand over one thing and typically it’s household. I spent a whole lot of time on my own.”
Then there have been the challenges of everybody figuring out who he was.
“It was the Hagler battle once I was getting it probably the most. It was, in fact, a battle for the ages. I used to be a bit older; I used to be getting all of the yelling and craziness from the youngsters at school. Everybody was saying how Hagler was going to beat my dad to dying.
“I used to be enjoying basketball at college and all the youngsters have been shouting ‘Hagler, Hagler’. I walked again into faculty straight after the battle with my chest up saying, ‘Yeah, my dad did the inconceivable’. I really sat again within the locker room for that battle, I used to be too nervous. Me and Mike Coach [Leonard’s adviser] scored the battle from the locker room.”
Leonard Jr can also be eager to level out that, whereas carrying what was probably the most well-known names in America throughout the Seventies was removed from plain crusing, it did include its perks.
“It’s a double-edged sword. There may be an expectation that comes with having a reputation that carries greatness, but additionally folks need to come at you as a result of they assume you might have had a silver spoon in your mouth. Then you might have people who find themselves opportunists due to your title. I nonetheless can’t get away from that.
“For a very long time, I shied away from it as a result of I needed to create my very own path, however the actuality is it’s a blessing and a burden. It definitely helped me get into golf equipment as I acquired older!”
His dad’s profession was primarily completed when Jr was aged 19, and there have been quite a lot of causes he didn’t pursue the identical profession that had introduced his household such a humiliation of riches. The truth is, that is the principle cause he didn’t.
“I felt stress to field from the surface, however not from my father or household. Boxing is a sport the place it’s essential to be 100% dedicated whether or not you’re a champion or a journeyman,” mentioned Leonard Jr.
“Boxing is commonly for folks economically challenged and it acts as a method out. From a household standpoint, I really like the game, I really like the coaching, however I didn’t have the identical need. I did novice boxing once I was youthful and have carried out superstar boxing, however it wasn’t for me.”
Leonard Jr set about carving his personal path, not prepared to relaxation on his laurels and the truth that he was now a part of a multi-million greenback household.
“As soon as I discovered workforce sports activities like soccer and observe and area, I excelled rapidly,” he mentioned. “I feel spending a lot time alone once I was youthful was a part of my love for workforce sports activities. I assumed it was a greater path for me, academically as nicely.
“Because of this, a workforce sport felt like household. I used to be then round a bunch of different people which meant I didn’t should be the complete centre of consideration. I actually loved that household ambiance. Soccer was like a sanctity for me.”
It might be honest to say that he took after his dad when it got here to sporting expertise. A two-sport athlete in NCAA soccer and observe and area, though he’s quickly to play it down.
“I did fairly nicely however it’s fairly laborious to comply with within the footsteps of a man with an Olympic gold medal and 6 world titles in 5 totally different weight divisions!”
It was throughout Leonard Jr’s soccer days that his dad tried one other comeback. “I used to be attempting out for the Arizona Cardinals on the time it didn’t go nicely towards Hector Camacho [Leonard lost in the fifth round in his final fight]. I really acquired to run up within the ring and seize him and maintain him in that final battle. I used to be there with him in the beginning and on the finish, and I at all times thought how particular that was. Being a part of the ‘4 Kings’ household in sporting historical past has simply been a trip that most individuals will solely dream of.”
Importantly for Leonard Jr, his dad’s success gave him the inspiration and motivation to tread a path of success that he nonetheless enjoys as we speak.
“As a younger African-American individual, I didn’t assume I could possibly be concerned within the monetary world. Or have investments or any of that stuff. However seeing my dad’s success formed who I’m as we speak and formed what I’m doing. And I now have these conversations with my children. It’s about making a monetary legacy not only a well-known legacy.
“We’ve seen so many instances in boxing that their success is fleeting after which they’re signing autographs in Caesars Palace when they’re 75 years outdated. Making an attempt to verify they’ll put meals on the desk.
“Dad needed to be nice as a boxer in the beginning. However the one factor he at all times advised me, which got here from Muhammad Ali, was ‘At all times signal your individual cheques’.
That caught with Leonard Jr from a younger age.
“You probably have the chance to be a family title and be intentional with the advertising you do, you need to do it. We did 15 TV commercials; I had a online game named after me known as Ring King with Nintendo. That was the good factor as a child.
“Although we now have our ups and downs and difficult instances it has been a reasonably cool journey. You requested me earlier what it was like, I’ll sum it up in a single phrase, surreal.”
Ray Leonard Jr is a founder and CEO of Ovationz.com, and a globally recognised public speaker, actor, award-winning enterprise government and podcast host.